how unpleasantHow unpleasant it is to realize that you are the most judgmental person in the room. You are also moralizing—you filter everything through the lens of how things should be and how one ought to act. It is not easy for people like that to live. They never quite reach their own ideal, yet they keep judging everyone else. And how are you supposed to live under those conditions? How do you stop trying to derive the perfect formula for existence? For example, there is the dilemma of an opportunistic migrant from a developing country living in a developed...